Random Boy

Onetime, one boy came and chat to me.

Boy        :  Hi, I want to consult.

Me         : Haha, What ? what consutation ?

Boy        : What a nice thing to think about before sleep ?

Me         : Umm, i don’t know. Everybody have a diffrent ways.

Boy        : How to eliminate the problem and leave it to God ?

Me         : You want spiritual counseling? I am not the right person. If you want to forget the problem, do not keep thinking about it. Just Forget it. Think of the things that make you feel peaceful. Or share your problems to your friends.

Boy        : Think of the things that make you feel peaceful ? for example...

Me         :  May think of a parent, a pet, your girl, etc. Anythings that make you peaceful.

Boy        : Ok. Thanks. ALLOW ME TO THINK ABOUT YOU BECAUSE I DON’T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.

Me         : LEFT CHAT.

How can you kill your ex (the person you used to love)

A tale of teenage love gone awry

Saturday March 8, 2014

The Jakarta Post

Elizabeth Diana was deeply shocked to learn that brutal murde of her only child, Ade Sara Angelina Suroto, may have been commited by her daughter’s ex-boyfriend, who she once regarded as her own son. The mourning woman, however, said she fully forgave the alleged killer, as well as his new lover who is suspected of assisteng her boyfriend in the murder of 19-year-old Sara.

Elizabeth said she trusted the police to uphold justice for her family. According to the police , the suspected murderers could be facing the death penalty.

Speaking to reporters after her daughter’s funeral at Pondok Kelapa Cemetery in East Jakatarta on Friday afternoon, 40-year-old Elizabeth looked strong and offered a spirit of forgiveness to  the alleged killers.

“I believe they are good kids. They just could not control their internal bad sides,” said Elizabeth, regarding the suspected killers.

Jakarta police spokesman Sr. Comr. Rikwanto said that the police had arrested two suspects, identifies as Ahmad Imam Al Hafitd, 19, and his girlfriend Assyifa Ramdhani, also 19. Hafitd, Assyifa and Sara became friends when they studied  together at a public senior hight school in East Jakarta, from which they graduated last year.

Rikwanto said that, according to prelimanary questioning, the police believed the two suspects had commited the murder out of anger, jealousy and a fear of being abandoned..

Citing investigator, Rikwanto described Hafitd as Sara’s ex-boyfriend. Hafitd told the police that he was angry and brokenhearted because Sara had refused to answer his telephone calss or respond to his other communication effort after their relationshiap broke up last year.

Meanwhile, Hafitd’s, new girlfriends , ‘Assyifa, confessed that she was jealous because Hafitd was always thinking about Sara and not about her. She regarded Sara as a major obstacle in her relationship with Hafitd.

Sara’s body was found on the side of the West Bekasi toll road on Wednesday morning. She was a student at Bunda Mulia University in Pademangan, North Jakarta. On Tuesday evening, she was allegedly picked up by Hafitd and Assyifa from Gondangdia train station in Central Jakarta. It is believed that Hafitd and Assyfa then tortured Sara insede a car until she died, the fore dumping her body on the side of the toll road .... continue

Less reasonable

Reasonable if a sister aged 6 years crying.  But feels weird, when she cries caused by romance drama.

Me : Hey what's up? why are you crying?

Sis  : Sad to see that girl. She was very confused, which guy will she choose.

Me : Pardon ? what do u talking about ? That movie ?

Sis  : Yes.

Me : Do you understand ?

Sis  : (*She was smile and blush)

Me : Ok explain me. How can you cry to see that movie ?

Sis  : That girl was confused and ...

Me : And ?

Sis  : She was hurt by the boys, and she cried.

Me : Hurt ? How can you say she hurt  ?

Sis :  I can see. I knew she was hurt.

And i was speecless..

Faculty of Psychology, Padjadjaran University class of 2011

Only Post

Well, a few weeks ago I was in the hospital.  I may have been infected from my sister but, the main reason is my lifestyle. I often eat junk food, fast food, and almost every day to drink softdrink. I sleep only 4-5 hours per day and in the morning do a lot of activities. Someone said, "how can you love someone else, while you don't love yourself !" Damn she's right. Consequently, I have suffered from illness,

three weeks didn't go to college, and certainly waste a lot of money. And for my father, how much i love you dadd :') he left a work meeting, and visit me. Thanks to My dear friends and @psikopad11.
I didn't ask for anyone reading this. I just want to keep on the blog, so that I always remember.

Different treatment to girls and boys

Son : Hey dad ! I got a girlfriend!
Dad : Nice son, is she hot ?
Son : Hell yeah !

Girl : Hey dad ! I got a boyfriend !
Dad : *Loads shotgun

About Girls

When a girls says "It's okay, I'm fine, or don't worry about it" , it's not okay, she's not fine, and you should definitely worry about it.

Common lies

Common lies from guys

I'm sorry, I won't hurt you, I love you

Common lies from girls

I'm fine, I'm not mad at you, I don't love you, don't worry

People who pretend as schizophrenia

Do you believe a schizophrenia to say this ?

I am a schizophrenia. and I'm emotionally dead , Its been 5 years since I was diagnosed. I wounder if I would be in love someday , I can't cry in hard times , How could I react if I just didn't crush on anyone

yet ,

Please tell me , Can I do something about it :(

I was sad to hear him. But,

I don't know if he really Sz or just pretending? He may be right, but I've heard of people who pretend Sz.

In medicine, it’s called “malingering” if a patient is trying to deceive someone by faking, feigning or exaggerating symptoms.

Doctors try to discover fakers the same way that people good at detecting lies discover liars. They look for inconsistencies, or things that don’t quite match.

For instance, if a supposed schizophrenic can tell you clearly and without confusion that they’re extremely confused, their actions don’t correspond with what they are saying. A very confused person can’t clearly say how confused they are.

Or, if they act mentally disorganized while talking with a psychiatrist, yet later they can play chess with another patient, something doesn’t match.

It’s considered an advanced skill to detect a malingering schizophrenic, because a psychiatrist must know in detail the difference between real and fake psychotic symptoms.

So how do doctors catch the fakers?

I've read the article : DECEPTOLOGY

A malingerer is like an beginning actor who’s overacting. A beginning actor may try to play a drunk person by slurring every word and swaying and falling down, but an experienced actor knows what a drunk is like, and plays the drunk as someone who is drunk, but is trying to act normal.

Many people who try to fake a mental illness try to “play crazy.”

A faker will try to make their illness front and center, and make their psychosis the first thing they want to discuss, while a real patient will be reluctant to explain their symptoms.

so, what motive someone to do "malingering"?